The subject of sexualization of early childhood is a reality that we must deal with in today’s society. Children are learning about sexualization but do not understand it at this young age. Girls learn at a very early age that they are judged by the way they look, and boys are taught to judge girls by how close they come to a fake,” impossible, and shallow ideal “(Levin, & Kilbourne, 2009 pg.2). Sexualizing girls is nothing new and happens all the time in the media, on television, and in the clothing industry.
I have observed sexualization of children in many ways. Children have so much exposure to TV, internet, advertisement and marketing that show sexualization. Children come to school singing lyrics that contain inappropriate sexual language. They are exposed to these songs in their home environments, outside in their communities, on television, and from their peers. In music videos, girls shake their body's and move in provocative ways because they think that it is cute, acceptable and what everyone wants to see. Beauty pageants feature young toddlers and preschoolers with excess makeup, extreme fashions which make them visualize how they are supposed to look. The way children, especially girls, are being presented in the media is becoming an issue because of all the new TV shows such as “Toddlers and Tiaras.” The way they are portrayed in these shows plays a part in shaping their identity.
The vast amount of sexualization shown in the media can stunt the development of children during a time in which they should be having fun rather than focusing on the way they look and trying to grow up. The sexualization of girls in the media can lead to lower self-esteem; physical and mental health disorders, including depression and eating disorders; and a distorted body image, because girls don’t feel that they can achieve the physical beauty they see in images around them (Levin, & Kilbourne, 2009). Everyone at all levels must work to create an environment that is supportive of children's healthy gender and sexual development. To stop sexualization, we must enact public policies that reduce the sexualization of children including limiting the power that corporations have to market sex to children without any consequences. As teachers, when children emulate sexualized behavior we should identify and stop the children’s sexualized behavior immediately in the classroom. The language we use should be direct, but it should not shame the children.
My awareness of sexualization has been significantly enhanced. I learned a lot about the role that the different types of media play regarding the sexualization of children. We do not think about how much harm things such as music videos, or video games that portray children negative light can affect their gender and healthy development.
References
Levin, D. E., & Kilbourne, J. (2009).
[Introduction]. So sexy so soon: The new sexualized childhood and what
parents can do to protect their kids (pp. 1-8). New York: Ballantine Books.
Retrieved from: http://dianeelevin.com/sosexysosoon/introduction.pdf
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